Nina Stanyer
Identity & Boundaries Coach | Author | Survivor | Voice Reclaimer
Helping women reclaim their voice, their worth, and their life.
For those who’ve forgotten who they are while trying to be everything to everyone
This is the place to remember who you are, with courage, boundaries, and quiet power
Come home to yourself
My Story
Silence to Voice - Survival to Strength - Fear to Courage - Shame to Worth - Isolation to Connection
“I am more than what I’ve survived.”
Yes, I am a survivor of domestic abuse – but that is not the whole of me.
Today, I walk beside women who are ready to move beyond silence and survival.
I have walked through the darkness and chosen the light – not because it was easy, but because I chose myself when it mattered most.
I’ve turned my pain into purpose, my experience into empowerment.
And now, I walk beside other women as they remember their worth, reclaim their voice, and rise.
Through the Darkness
In my thirties, I hit breaking point.
Behind the smile was a shell of a woman silently battling fear, shame, and the scars of trauma. I was dangerously underweight, living with an eating disorder, and carrying the weight of suicidal thoughts in silence.
No one was handing me the words I needed most: “You are not alone”. Just me, trying to make sense of the storm inside.
And slowly, piece by piece, I began to return to myself.
Why I’m Here Today
I speak now because I once couldn’t.
I coach now because I wish I’d had someone to guide me back then.
My return to self was made possible by someone who saw past my mask, who stood beside me as I faced:
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Resistance
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Disbelief
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Fear
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Shame
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The “I can’t” and “I won’t”
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The darkness
That moment of unwavering support changed my life.
Now, I am that moment for others.
A Story You’ll Understand
You don’t have to have lived my story to feel the ache of losing yourself.
You just have to know what it means to feel silenced, small, or stuck.
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This isn’t just my story — it’s a mirror for every woman who’s ready to come home to herself.
Client Stories & Testimonials
Reflections from Women Like You
Rachel - Client
Nina is genuine, authentic and great at what she does and, provided you put some work in too, you'll find the session so worthwhile!
Thanks Nina
Simone - Client
Nina has a real talent for getting right to the core of an issue. She holds space and knows when to push and when to hold back.
She has really helped me come out the other side of my trauma.
Susi - Client
I always feel truly supported and cared for in her sessions, and her ongoing support has made a lasting difference. I highly recommend Nina to anyone seeking guidance, growth, and a compassionate coach by their side.
I Hear You
I hear the doubt. The self-blame. The quiet ache of not feeling good enough.
I hear the whisper that says, “Maybe it’s too late for me.”
But I want you to know – it’s not.
You are not broken. You’re becoming.
And you don’t have to walk this road alone anymore.
I See You
I see the strength it took to get here – to keep going when everything in you wanted to stop.
I see the fire behind your pain, the wisdom born from your wounds.
You’ve carried so much.
Now it’s time to do more than survive.
It’s time to rise into the you that has always been waiting beneath the silence.
I Believe in You
Even if you don’t believe in yourself yet.
Even if you’ve been told to stay small, to stay quiet, to stay safe.
I believe in your ability to heal and grow.
Your past does not get to write your future. You do.
And I’ll be here, steady beside you, as you return to your voice, your truth, your power.